Dear all,

I'm sorry if I am posting in the wrong section but there seems to be a gap between the LMR section and Relationships section and my situation falls inbetween those two. If this thread is not supposed to be here could the moderators please move it instead of deleting it, thank you.

I will try to make this as short as possible

> Met a girl at reception (I work as a receptionist at my university), there were no other people there so we had a 5min chat and a laugh, she gave me her number (lol I'm not even allowed to do this)
> Just phone game for 4 days, gradually escalating sexually, arranged a date for 5th day
> Met up in 5th day, spent a few hours in town, went back to hers to watch a movie, had sex
> I seem to have developed oneitis, we share a lot of similar interests (more than other girls I've met) and I actually want to keep this one.

What do I do? I don't want to screw up. I try to not look needy/pushy and limit my contact with her but at the same time want to show her I don't want only sex.. and I don't want to talk about it just now because I know commitment can be a turn off at early stages

I've arranged to see her tomorrow night again, but she seems neutral towards seeing me. As in she doesn't mind if we meet up and have sex or not.

Do I just keep on smashing until she develops feelings or what? I'm confused

Thank you

If you want this girl stop thinking of playing games and all those PUA rubbish stuff. Just act with confidence and be yourself because she already likes you. From personal experience I can tell you that girls appreciate good men and generosity, although 100% of PUAs say they don't.

I agree with this, unless being yourself means being needy and insecure.