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PostPosted: Thu Jul 04, 2013 3:51 pm 
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im having trouble seperating my real life from game. sure i can run natural game which seems to flow a whole lot smoothly with my normal life but im putting a lot of pressure on myself to stop every beautiful girl i see or want to get to know. should i set aside time for gaming through my social life. or in the long run is it about taking the oppurtunities that present themselves to you throughout your life (as most men do) only difference in us (pua) being able to not fuck them up and make them work, or creating the oppurtunitys yourself at every given chance (every time we see a beautiful woman we want to close), or perhaps the best thing for me to do is not put so my pressure on my self and game accordingly as and when we feel up to it................what do you guys think?


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PostPosted: Thu Jul 04, 2013 6:45 pm 
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Wow. It sounds to me like you are very confused. By that I mean that in this case it's probably best to trust yourself.

PUA is a glorified hobby to most people, but really it is just a part of your life, and who you are.

I would remove these limited ways of thinking and just think about what you really want to do--if you want to have sex with a girl, then go meet her! And if you don't, then don't. But don't let other things get in the way.

In the long run, much better to talk to too many women than not enough.

You say you want to stop every beautiful girl--you may want to reconsider that. Try going for girls that you are REALLY interested in, or girls that seem to reciprocate your interest, or girls that seem your type. It may seem like hitting on every hot girl that walks by is a good idea, but in the long run it's far more efficient to get really good at gaming the ones that are more your type.

Point is--if you're not sure, go for it! You have nothing to lose. Just don't get caught up in the game. Do what you really want and feel like doing.

For example, I am a dancer and so most of the women I meet are also dancers, although there are quite a few models and other women who are around, working the stage. Once I even hooked up with my choreographer. Since we are all dancing, and there are fewer men, I meet most of the women and we see each other frequently. They are essentially forced to spend time with me, and I get a lot of looks. When I see a woman who's looking at me that I am also interested in, then I will go talk to her for a bit and invite her for a drink. This is how it goes most of the time. It's easy because we have a common interest.

What kinds of places do you typically meet women right now?


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PostPosted: Thu Jul 04, 2013 7:04 pm 
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When i was younger, before I had even heard anything about PUA, I would put time aside to hit the streets and talk to every attractive girl I saw. Although I was having some success, I noticed that the energy I would give off would be a tad bit desperate because I'm making special time for girls, while they're just living there life freely. Now unless I am working with one of my students I approach women as I am living my normal life. On my way to and fro whereever I am going, if I see someone, no matter where or what I'll go say whats up. Its comes off a lot more natural that way in my opinion.

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PostPosted: Thu Jul 04, 2013 7:25 pm 
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I always tell guys, game is just a glorified hobby, always have something better to do. Girls can feel your energy, when you are constantly focuse on girls.

For women, their purpose is the flow of intimacy.
For men, your purpose is your priority. Women are not a priority, the course of your life for the better is your priority.

When you start shifting your emergy to other things, women feels this, and you do not resonate with them as you would if it was just a glorified hobby.

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