Alright guys hope some of you might be able to help......the situation is I have a number in my phone could be months/years old of a girl I must have met out drunk and forgot about. Anyway I noticed her no. And pic In my SPAM account, bt never found out who she was. This week I have seen her on POF so I know she is single and want to hit it. I want to txt her from my phone, bt can't think of a decent opener that won't get me cut down for never calling. Do I play the dumb I don't know who you are but your in my phone or is that digging my own grave......I have no recollection of this girl so could have done anything to her, help plz help as she looks hot?!

Honestly, in this case, honesty is probably your best policy. Chances are if you were drunk she may have been too, and if she was interested then she might still be interested now. There is no point in beating around the bush on this one.

I would text her something like "Hey sexy girl" just to get her attention. As soon as she texts you back, call her. Calling always gets better results, especially in situations like this one. Just explain to her that you found her number and remembered her, but you were drunk. No need to mention you discovered her online. Best leave that out.

Also, if you are talking about POF the dating website...that sounds kind of scary. But she may be more willing to hook up if she is that desperate.

A can opener at this point will be of little to know help because it won't be of your tone and attitude. Even if she does respond the conversation is likely to fizzle out shortly after.

My best advice to you is to pick up the phone and call her. You have way more to work with and way more time to sort everything out. Texting is going to be of little help at this stage; if you want to bang her as bad as you say and you are comfortable expressing that in the energy(Not words) you give off on the phone you'll be as good as golden. Call her out; " What the hell are you doing on POF? ", but call her man don't text her. Tell her you saw her on that site and was reminded that you never contacted her. Be you and she'll be her and things will work out.

Joey

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I don't know. It might be odd to mention he found her online. Particularly if he spent time looking for her.

But I agree that you should call her.