Every night I have been playing several hypnotherapy tracks. This started off as

Building Rapport
Flirting

I did not feel any instant results. Yet I suddenly found myself flirting. I cant put my finger on exactly when it happens.

I have now added the following tracks.

Be the alpha Male
Be the natural (it was that or become a PUA and I decided the natural mindset was a better one to have.

Since I have added these two tracks. I have noticed at work when I deal with 3rd party companies I am becoming less argumentative and just more direct and sticking up for myself. Plus a guy who really pissed me ff, I just honestly ignore him now and don't give a fuck.

Also I am less bothered about routines. But when Im around women, I feel like Im trying less and just enjoying the conversation. I always seem to get a smile, I enjoy it.

Yet at the same time I don't thrive on it. As Im not so intent on attention now I don't feel I must get it. Yet it seems to happen.

Is this the right mindset to have. Surely if Im not focussed on approaching girls when I next do night game, Im not gonna approach them.

Its just when I focussed on approaching, altho you may say I was obsessed. I was defo putting myself out there. But last time I went out I didn't have this drive, yet I found myself actually getting more attention and being able to connect better.

Sorry it just feels weird, I dunno if Im I just classed myself as an approach artist as an excuse. Or if my game is actually improving.

Sure Im having better interactions, but Im not approaching as many women. But the interactions I do have I actually feel a connection myself.

Is this a normal realisation.