seems like all of my fuck-buddies are dropping off like flies. i posted the other day about two that found out about eachother.

Now the next one is definitely checking out and i dont know how to handle her without stopping the games.

with this girl (7 years younger), i fullfilled her Christian Grey BDSM fantasy....i even wrote her a sex contract and everything.
this then became a rough sex love affair for about 6 months, where she come over every other week and we'd be violently passionate, slapping, hard fucking, ropes, a whip...amazing sex...and then she'd be on her merry way home. very bitchy alpha type girl so the chemistry was perfect.

the fire burned really hot until she found out i was dating another girl and doing things other than sex with the other girl.

she cut me off cold, so i let he run away
then she re-established contact on my birthday and i was able to pull her back in the loop...

we then fucked a couple more times, and then all of the sudden she flaked...

and now ever since its not the same, she has killed the chemistry, she doesnt reach out like she used to and when things start getting sexual through text...shell play with it for 5 or 6 texts... shell say things like "you havent had me against the wall in a while"..... and then all of the sudden she would just check out of the conversation and not text anymore

very weird behavior.

so ive been letting her pull away...and im reaching out once every other week, only to get shady responses and ignored texts.

i decided to call her yesturday to catch her by surprise....she answered...and she just kept talking for about 10 mins about random things (perhaps as a defense mechanism) and then said "hold on, i forgot i have to call someone else, ill call you back".................low and behold, she didnt call back

the other girl she was jealous over is now out of the picture and she is aware of it...but still...im getting nowhere with this girl lately.

i dont know if its spite, loss of interest, or someone spreading rumors

how do i get this girl to just be real and show me more respect, and give me a reason for her behavior..without me giving in and being AFC.

i just want her to tell me whats up but still maintain my confidence...so how should i phrase my next contact with her??

i want to call her out without looking insecure about it... need advise

bump

You can't. If she truly is a FWB, she doesn't owe you SHIT!

Your becoming clingy and needy!

That wasn't the agreement.

Both of you must be honest about their intentions from the start. Failure to stay true to their word is grounds for dismissal.

You must keep texting to a minimum, each text exchange can be flirtatious but must remain devoid of romanticism or “flowery” language.
No it's not weird. She likely is seeing, dating, and hooking up with other people.

Shocking I know.
You don't have a right to know, you didn't brag to her about your other hookups did you?
DTF? That's all.

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"DTF?" is likely the most unintelligent thing you could say to a woman. not a chance any educated woman would respond to that.

ive already proven my sexual prowess with this girl, and shes well aware im much more interesting and creative than that.

regardless, youve made good points...perhaps im feeling a bit needy here...but only because i feel shes acting out of spite as shes done in the past. which is sort of why i want to clear the table

at the rate its going, sexual flirtation through text is only going so far, so either i give up or i try something different

Only someone that has never sent this message could make that statement. You absolutely can sent that to any "educated" woman you want and get a response.

But because YOU believe you couldn't get a response, I'll overlook the derogatory assumption.
Yes. Invite her over for whatever trumped up reason you can think of.

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