So I meet this chick a while ago, everything was great, chemistry, feelings, attraction all of it.. but I still wasn't completely over my ex with whom I was together with for 2 years, so I kinda held back a bit, alltho i liked her alot and there was chemistry I just couldn't help but holding back a bit.. anyway after some time she told me she doesn't think this will work and that we should just be friends. In the time we were together I got to know her quite good tho, but anyhow we both agreed to be friends... now some time passed ( meanwhile I got over my ex and cleared some things I had in my head ) and we keept in touch but not rly meeting, and I was starting to miss her more and more, and was confused about it.. Then something happened that made me realize that I have stronger feelings for this chick that I thought at the start, and I really want to try something with her to see where it goes. So I set up a meet with her which went good in terms of teasing, flirting and having fun, but when I tried to escalate things physicaly she keept giving me strong signs that she doesn't want that, which confused me a bit, she keept pushing me away like that.
So after a while I told her about it and said that I was a bit off and distant before because I had some unresolved issues but now thats gone and I like her and shes pretty cool so id like to see where this goes and if something develops. And she said that she was really into me at the start but I seemed like im not interested in her at all ( which was true ) so now those feelings subsided and went away, so she doesn't feel that way anymore. I told her id really like to see if this develops into something and she said shes not sure about trying what I proposed ( i proposed that we meet up and are intimate since we already passed that boundary, but i guess thats a bit too much, and she might have also got the feeling that i just want sex ) and she rather just stay friends alltho she likes me but those feelings she had subsided. So we kinda agreed to think about it a bit now, so now I need some advice on the matter.. what do you guys suggest is the best course of action here? I really wan't to try something with her because I really like her, so what is the best course to take here?

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Learn from your mistakes and find someone new.

Ok... but if I want to spark interest and feelings again in her, what would the best course of action be?

Stop being friends with her for starters. Women categorise men into 3x groups: 1) A fuck / fling 2) Boyfriend material and 3) Friends. Just tell her you can't see her as anything but a lover so you are breaking off contact with her.

hey dude,

the reason you have little to no comments on the post is because the readers can feel your boring/ overly emotional self through your writing. It was literary a drag to even continue reading that without skipping through parts.

I'm going to guess you're young, and as a young guy you have to understand that there will be a shit load of time to deal with women. Right now, you have been injured a bit. Think about a athlete that tears his ACL, he can't keep on playing the sport at the professional level because he is injured. He must first heal and then go out there and give it another shot. You need to heal dude, as of now there is nothing you can do that is going to be at the " Professional" level because you are still dealing with an injury. When guys say let it go, its so you can heal and be stronger when its time to get back up and get on the field.

Heal man; its all I can tell you. If you want to be a stubborn athlete and play anyway you're only going add more destruction onto yourself.

Joey

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