So I'm not gonna call myself a loser, cuz I'm not. When it comes to openings, I excel at text game. I can keep the rapport and banter up when the person I'm talking to is on the other end of a phone. But for some reason when I'm talking to a girl in person, even if the conversation is going somewhere and its topic both of us are completely comfortable with, I turn into this nice guy where I can't compliment a girl without sincerely meaning it/getting brushed off. What I'm really trying to ask is this: where do I get the cockiness/swagger/confidence that most AMOGs and PUAs have? Btw it might help to know that I get friend-zoned pretty frequently.

I've recommended this website numerous times on here because it has helped me improve my game. www.badboylifestyle.com you'll find lots of advice on that website on how to get past issues like this. If you're talking about club game don't compliment. Instead of a compliment think of a light insult as soon as you compliment you're not a challenge anymore. Some ppl just have natural confidence some have to develop it. What I recommend is just go out talk and talk to girls whether it be at the mall a club on the street just get used to approaching women. Remember you're gonna get rejected sometimes but its better to approach and get rejected then to not approach at all. Just have fun with it.

Thanks, that actually helps a lot