i need your opinion on going extra miles for new girl???
i recently met this girl at mall. i pick her up, got her number.
a week later, she agree to meet me. but she want me to drive her home after out meetup, about 25 miles distance (quite far).
we plan to meet after her work at 8 pm, so means i don't have much time left to hang out with her, since tomorrow is also working day, and i have to drive her home after. is it worth it? i feel used here.
how do you think guys?
the fact is i cancelled the meetup and suggest later meeting when we both have longer spare time.

Always trust your gut dude.


The fact that something in you is making you fee like your being used suggest that something is enough. Men as a whole need to learn to start listening to our guts because its always communicating with us. What has she done other than be a girl that qualifies her for a ride home?

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I agree if you're there at her beckon call and do everything at her convience she'll see you as a pushover. Follow your gut be a challenge for her. Set up a date at your convience make her come to you. Its not wrong to go the extra mile sometimes especially when you're in a relationship but in this situation put your needs above hers act like you're the prize not her.

thanks guys.
i had cancelled the meeting.
and she didn't reply my message at all.
i guess i have to pick another one.

No worries mate
Sounds like she saw you as a meal ticket best not to waste your time fucking about with girls like that. Plenty of other girls out there go out and meet them and have fun with it