Hey everyone I am a new member of the PUA forum but I have a quick question but before the question there is a story behind it so stay tuned folks. First off I met this girl when I was in 9th grade and she was in 8th so I got her number after talking to her for 2 hours at a party and starting texting her she didn't have unlimited texting to services that were not verizon (I had virgin mobile lol) and so she ran out the thing is she stopped talking to me in person and never texted me back or emailed me (i gave her mine and she never responded) now I am going to be a 12th grader and I saw a picture of her and brought back a lot of memories thing is I still have her number so what I was thinking was when I get a car soon I was going to text her or call her saying "Hey who's number is this" If she responds I will hold the conversation (When I first texted her I sounded needy but she was perfect in every way how could I not I was immature as well but now I actually know how to hold one without sounding needy I even get girls numbers at malls etc.) Now my question is if I can ever get her ever again? See I met her at this party that happens twice a year one in july and one in december we live in different cities but i do get my car soon ( i have a job and saving up for it) I also do Muay Thai so i am fit and I do take AP classes and get high B's to A's so I am not the dumb jock. Now my question is again is there any way I can get her? After all these years!

Best thing I can tell you be cool don't place too much value on this one girl you're young there's a lot of other girls out there. Don't do the hey who's # is this won't get the results you want I almost garuantee it. Instead text her or better yet call her be confident and direct if you appeared needy before this will help make a new impression. Good luck

Hm well I don't see her until next year so that is why I was saying should I call her now or should I wait until I have a car so if she does say yes I won't have to ask a parent or bump a ride lol

Good advice

Hm well I don't see her until next year so that is why I was saying should I call her now or should I wait until I have a car so if she does say yes I won't have to ask a parent or bump a ride lol[/quoteth

That's up to you not having a car is an obstacle you have to work around for now. There are plenty of other options cab bus what not albeit they're not as ideal they'll get you by for now. Don't let not having a car hold you back if you want this girl go and take her NOW.