Basicly i met this chick a couple weeks ago, we had sex after my gig on friday, the following week i took her to another party i played at, we snogged but apart from that no sex because she had to go work the next morning (genuine)
she left her purse at mine and i told her to come get it the next night, and she said it was too long for her to come down - I cant seem to figure if shes interested or not. Anyway i gave her purse to her friend on sunday, we texted for abit she said thanks and i didnt reply back. This was the last time we spoke (text) I havent texted her or vice versa for 2 days 3 nights now. Should i drop her a text tomorrow to say hello ? how's work etc ? and then ask if she wants to go cinema ? (thats what i want to do) or just carry on waiting for her to text/call me first ?

Not too sure what to do....

Don't text her the boring "hello, how's work?"! Text her something playful, like an inside joke or something, or start a roleplay with her. Basically this first text here serves as an attention grabber, a hook, a testing of the waters to see if she replies. Then when she does reply, check her investment into the text (does she text back playfully, fall into your frame, text a lot?) and calibrate to that.

Anyway, when you do push for a meetup make sure it's not a typical date like the cinema, but something fun, like a swim? Or cycling? Or cooking dinner at yours? Something fun man. Something where you DO things.

Don't text like a chode, text her yourself make it fun and go for another meetup and spice shit up

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