Just recently this new girl joined the boxing gym I train at she is a 9 really nice and smart. We've talked a bit mainly like where are from how did you like class small talk like that. I am one of the most experienced ppl there so there's been a couple classes where the coach asked me to take her aside and go over the basics and what not. It went well we had good convo but I am not looking to just fclose this girl I would like to actually go out with her. I just don't wanna come off as the guy trying to pick up hot girls at the gym what would be the best way to #close and get a date with this girl without giving the wrong impression?
Side note: there's a few girls that train at my gym I talk joke with them all the time they're all comfortable with me I am friends with them all.

" just don't wanna come off as the guy trying to pick up hot girls at the gym what would be the best way to #close and get a date with this girl without giving the wrong impression?"

but you are trying to pick up a hot girl at the gym??

anyway theres no wrong impression in joking around, negging her a bit, flirting, see if theres chemistry, finding common interests and then inviting her out doing something you both find funny...

take this scenario for example.. you are traning with her, teasing her a bit about her technique or that she punches like a girl then making her laugh a bit, and fooling around with each other, then youll ask if she also watches boxing in tv or live and then you could arrange a date where you went out watch a local bowing match or something... i would go for MMA or UFC as its a bit more dramatic but you decide, you could even suggest that youll have dinner before or after the fight

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Suggest she train with you, it's actually a good way to get to know a girl. I did that with my current gf who I've now been with for the last 9 months. Gym is actually a good place to game women as most guys there blow themselves out taking t he pervert or creepo route.

Agree with this.

Just don't be starring at her ass while she's squatting..... Or atleast don't get caught doing it.

Thanks for the advice! What I shouldve said is I am not just trying to pick her up for a 1 nighter. I don't usually go for girls at my gym just for the reason if it didn't go well that's a prime example of pissing in your own pool. Next time I train with her I'll work on it a bit more and after class go for the # close. Like I said before I have a good relationship with all the girls there. they're all comfortable with me I am friends with all of them so asking a girl out once I get to know her a bit shouldn't be a problem.

Make the number close an incidental. In other words in a non chalant way say "let's train later this week I can use the motivation of having a training partner and in exchange ill teach you some more stuff" and if she agrees "gimme your number ill text u in the next day or so to figure out a time"