Hey people,

Here's my thing: I broke up with my gf like two months ago and for the past month we haven't spoke at all. I was tempted to contact her, but I was stronger than the temptation.

Last week, after an exam, something funny happened. It was almost the same situation that we've been through at one of our first dates. So, I said what the heck, I'll text and tell her about this. I ended the text with "right after this, I imagined how you would've reacted if you were here". I made it all sound like I was inspired to contact her at that moment.

She contacted me on facebook later, as she didn't had any messages left. We exchanged a few lines, how were the finals going and some fluff talk. I was the one to end the conversation.

Yesterday, I was by the pool and they played one of their favorite songs so I texted her again. We talked a bit more this time and again, I was the one to end the conversation.

Somehow, I think I'd like to give it a try and see if we can start over again. Should I try to reapproach her throught text messages? You know, make her remember about the great times we spent together and so on. Any advice is highly appreciated Doesn't matter if it's 'dude, forget her' or 'you could try...'.

Thanks!

Haha scrap that "I ended the conversation 1st" bollocks.

She is your ex, no need for the gamey frame battle crap.

Just talk to her face to face, eye to eye, spill your heart, tell her how you feel.

We cant decide for you, there is no magical text routine.

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I was thinking about taking things a bit slow this time...make her feel comfortable with me again and then start again.

I've only reestablished contacts with her for a few days. Isn't it to early to tell her how I feel?