Hey guys, I'm new and this is gonna be my first post. Not sure if this is the right forum but here it goes.

Briefly to me:in
I'm 27, student, sliding through life and have probably the same problems as many others fellows in my position. But whatever. Until I took coaching classes from a popular pua few years ago I wasn't really successful with women - but that has changed drastically since then. Nowadays I have quite a natural self-understanding as far as my dealings with the opposite sex. And usually I'm always in control of my emotional commitment. I do not know why I'm rather cold in that respect. If I had to guess I would say that I'm pretty tired and bored with pickup.
About 2 month ago a girl entered my life and she changed that drastically: The moment when we looked in each others eye's I was due. I've completely lost my heart .... and of course picked her up
I found it fascinating how confident she was and how she devoted herself with such enthusiasm to work, hobbies and friends. Probably because she's a few years older and knows what she wants. Men are clearly just the cherry on top of the icing to her - but I'm not sure. We had two really great months and when my spideye senses are not completely off I am very sure that she felt the same way.
In any case, she called me last week and told me she had been thinking and came to the realization that we both are too different and should probably part ways. Of course I accepted her decision and wished her all the best. I haven't called her since that.

I got to say I am very unhappy with the whole situation. As a PUA you get to know a lot of people. But only few of them cause this incomparable feeling: chemistry or whatever. And because of that I just don't want to give up on that person so easily. It would be a shame.

What do you guys say? Is there anything I can do? Should I invest anything at all? I do appreciate any feedback!

PUAs goal resumes in always have a positive feeling about everything, is not always about girls, it's about anyone and even about yourself. So you as a PUA in that case you should let the bad feelings apart, get a positive feeling and continue your journey, that's why you start PUA courses and get PUA advises right? To become a winner!
I believe that you didn't already have the best moments in life so why should you hook to a girl since you still have 27 years? Get it real, you have practiced, you lost money and time, why should you get only one girl?

I know the feeling you have, i call it the "lose feeling", happens when you have something and you lose it, only after that you give the value of having it!
That girl set up an idea, she thinks that you are not the man of her dreams, and why should you continue trying to be?

Since you are young as me, and since you have the power in your hands you should move on and continue picking up other girls, you'll see that you 'll get another girl like that that make you feel the same feelings or even more.

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Gotta put da cream!

Good advice, thanks!

And I agree with you on most things you mentioned. I just gotta continue persuing my goals and I'll get there.

Tho sometimes this is probably easier said than done..

True my friend, but you have to fix your ideas. Don't go after her, she might get someone and you'll be broken inside.

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Gotta put da cream!

You're absolutely right, I won't.

I was just and still am completely overwhelmed by this feeling. I haven't had that for many many years.