Here's the story I am curious to see if someone can point out something I missed (this is just for curiousity sake I don't care about this girl) I had been friends with this girl for a long time never made a pass at her we hung out went out talked a lot then one day I was telling her about a bull riding championship my brother won just out of the blue she's like what are you trying to do get your bro laid?!? I was llike wtf we didn't talk for a while then we started talking again I gave her a ride home one night dropped her off went for wings I thought I'll text her see if she wants to come out her answer No I am like whatever now we don't talk at all she stopped returning my texts because even though I've never made a pass all I am trying to do is get laid so needless to say were not friends and haven't spoken in months I don't care but I am a bit curious to know why she thought like that out of no where

i think she thought you two were on, and as you didnt make your move she became irritated and finaly she had enough.

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I agree with above.

I also have to ask. honestly Bro, you didn't want to bang her you just wanted to share some greasy chicken wings?

Although you likely wouldn't have made a move anyway, you would of hoped SHE would.

As much as it would be far easier to take a girl out to eat, she is SOOooo grateful, she just pulls your dick out, it JUST DON'T WORK THAT WAY!

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I here where your coming from you guys are right but its actually the opposite the part of the story I failed to mention was we went out 3 times I was gonna make a move but before I got the chance she introduced me to her bf I didn't really think anything of it we went out as friends no big deal we still talked then like I said in my 1st post bamshe went bitch. Since then I could barely say hi without being accused of having ulterior motives . The wings ya I admit lame but the one time she called me and was out with her friends for wings that's the only reason behind that.

But at the end of the day I really don't care about this girl I was just interested to see what other ppl thought

Punctuation man. This is very difficult to read. If your going to expect answers you should put that much effort into making it legible. Just sayin.....

if you truly didnt care you wouldn be asking about it, so what you are saying is that you dont care about the girl. that is exactly why that happened.

not careing about other people means you only care about yourself and that wont help you in this journey. learn that being open makes it possible for you to connect with people and putting this wall of indiference wont do anything for you, it will only make you lonely.

im actually working on a list of lessons i learned during this journey, and i havent posted this one yet but it goes like this.

your life, and everything arround you is like a garden. the relationships you have in your life are represented by plants in this garden, and for you to live in a beautiful garden you need to take care of those plants.

you need to take care of the people arround you, cuz if they are arround you you love them, if you dont love them dont have them arround you.
if you have to see them all the time learn to love them and as braddock say, be polite but not nice.

another lesson states that you should follow the law of sim,biosis.

simbiosis is a type of relationship beings have with one another that is studied in ecology, and a simbiotic relationship is one that follows the simple principle: a simbiotic relationship is one where both parties get beneficiated, and none are damaged.

oposed to the idea of a parasite relationship, where one party gets value while destroying and damaging the other party.

in just a few words, the simbiotic law states that you should achieve your goals, BY helping others achive theirs.

learn how can you change everything that you are doing to achive your goals, so that the very proses of doing so will help others achive theirs.

for example my goal here is to become a good dating coach, and to become better with woman myself, cuz i've always been interested in social dynamics. so there are two ways of achiving that goal: spam the shit out of everyone, or try to help people achieve their own goals, and in the prosess learn how to become a better coach and a better and more attractive person.

this is my philosophy and i hope it helps you on your journey.

jason.

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1st I would like to apologize for my lack of punctuation. Its partialy my fault and partialy because I am dysleXic and have trouble with it but I am working on it. I completely agree with your last post. And saying I don't care about her probably wasn't the right way to word that. After all your friends with someone for a couple years your gonna care about them. What I should have said is I don't care about the situation and I am not losing any sleep over her not talking to me anymore I moved on. The main reason for this post was just to get some insight into something I may have missed but more so just for curiousity sake I don't think we'll ever be friends again and that's completely on her. I took the initiative to talk to her (which I rarely ever do I usually just walk away) ask what was up I might as well have been talking to a wall. Which is too bad after being friends for almost 3yrs but hey I guess that's just how it rolls sometimes. Thanks for your insight I do appreciate it!!

I apologize. I thought you were in a hurry and being lazy. Just had to read it a few times to get it. I can be a little thick at times. Lol
It does suck you lost a friend of 3 years over something so petty. Sounds like your better off without her man.

No worries man!! I guess that's just how it goes sometimes.

It's funny how you will forget the second your dick is in a new one....as a matter of fact, she is two blocks away....out

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