Howdy friends.

So I guess I'm where a lot of guys find themselves at some point in time. The point in time where it's time to change. I'm trying very hard to improve my life, my lifestyle, and myself. I've started becoming a lot more active, and getting healthier and what not, but life is frustrating sometimes. Don't love my job, don't love my energy level most of the time, still kind of hung up on an ex girlfriend. Regular stuff. I'm optimistic though. I have had decent success with women. Nothing great. I'm really social but still have trouble with women sometimes. I would like to be a lot more successful. Basically I feel like some of the pickup involved stuff could really be a pathway to building not only my skills with women, but also building a better self and life. Only thing is, this shit is overwhelming! Just like information overload. I just wanted to know maybe how some of you started out, and how the hell you go from an average dude to really starting to improve. What worked for you? What didn't? Help a brotha out!

Thanks!

Start approaching. Its the hardest part of PUA. Once you get that down, the rest will come with experience.

This but I also say confidence is the biggest thing, girls know when guys are confident or faking it. Confidence draws girls in and lets them know that you can get other girls.