What's up hope you guys are having fun.

I'm having a hard time being objective right now and need your advice.

I met this girl last December (6 months ago) through my cousin. They work together. She says she's lesbian. My cousin is gay. She initially thought we were a couple, I'm not sure she believe it when I said we are not. Lol.

She is 22. A little too young for my taste, but I felt a connection which is rare. I have banged lesbians before so even if she really is one, I see it as a challenge.

Because I do some projects with her employer we would see each other around once a month. She is leaving the company which means we won't be seeing each other any more.

Which brings me to the other day. I made her enter her number on my phone and proceeded to "add" her on Facebook. I pretended to have trouble looking for her on FB. Of course she is added to my cousin which is easy. Here's where I have a problem: I never got to add her on FB. I cannot recall if I hit the "Add as friend" button. I was shocked to see there was no request. If I were being a pessimist I would say she could have rejected my request.

Would she have reason to?

Perhaps. Am going through some tough shit at the moment and I am not at my 100%. Probably around 70%. I tried my best to communicate my intentions without going overboard, but I may have gone AFC a bit (emotional attraction is a challenge for me, sorry). She has this charm and I see guys hover around her all the time. Even during events where there are hotter women.

I can sense them and I know she senses them too. She opened up once to me and my cousin about some guy giving him attention.

In my subjective viewpoint she gives me lots of attention. She also gives me tons of kino which I do not see her giving anyone else. I gave her lots of kino too. The most that I have given her was to squeeze both her cheeks. I think she liked it. I also shoved her inside a dresser to which she protested.

I tried throwing her negs, and pull stunts like shove her into a dresser to see how she would react. I still had her attention. Maybe just being polite? Lots of girls here pretend to be nice/polite/whatever just out of courtesy.

I would like to think that she adores me, in a lesbian crush kind of a way. I have long hair, maybe that helps? lol.

Back to her number and FB. I texted her 2 days after getting her #. One line: "<name>?" pretending to check if it was really her #. I know she entered the correct # because her mugshot came up on Viber (there's a tip for you, buds). No response.

We ran into each other again today, and she is out of my life forever unless I can do something to change its course. Irked as I was for the non-response I went cold and let her make first contact. I would say today went alright, and I have a good chance of maintaining contact. I just need advice how to do it right. I am willing to spend tons of effort to get her, but I genuinely find her interesting and do not mind if she ends up as a friend. I could use a lesbian wingman.

I am thinking of adding her on FB tomorrow. This time making sure I hit the "Add as friend" button. Or I can try calling her, but I need a really effective script for that. Or I can message her on Viber. Again, need script. I have a couple of ideas which I think are not that convincing (i.e. they suck). Time is running short and this is her last week at work.

Hit me up with some really cool advice bros!

No really getting any response so I'll add a summary here.

TL,DR: Lesbian has my curiosity. Built up rapport but did not escalate for a number of stupid reasons (i.e. I sucked). Won't be hearing from her again unless I do something. What is a good next move without appearing desperate?

My plan right now is to try to add her on Facebook again and chat her up. Is this a good move?

You have to show her that you are interesting! If i have understood it all right, you have talked to her a few times. If she haven't given you any IOI:s, then do something that will change it!
Back to the original question. Adding her on FB wont get her in to bed. Try to accidental bump in to her in real life, and then show her that you are interesting, and after that ask for her phone number.
I'm not sure if this will help, but at least it is an reply.

Also:read some books about PUA. I recomend, the game, the stylelife challange. Great books

Thanks for the reply man. I agree you have to appear interesting and that's what I did. I may have gone overboard at times. Anyways.

I already have her number. Texted her but did not respond. Tried adding her again on FB today. She hasn't accepted yet but she didn't reject either. I think this is gone, but it's all good.

Cheers

You shoved her into a dresser? Lol that's hilarious!

I thought so too, had a good laugh about it though not so sure if she appreciated it. She is a bit conservative and uptight. lol.

Anyway to give you guys an update I tried adding her again on FB, the request is still sitting there for 2 days now. So this is probably good as gone.

But I live for the challenge. I am going to try calling her. My female friend tells me to just confront her about not responding to SMS and FB. Not sure I agree. I also need backup plan in case she does not pick up.

If you guys have any suggestions on what to say, leave it here.