Case of One-itis for a PUA in training



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PostPosted: Wed Feb 06, 2008 2:02 am 
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Hey whats up Everyone? I've got kind of a problem with a girl at school. I'm a good looking 17 year old dude with plenty of confidence, but at the same time im not the most experienced with all of the PUA techniques and such. After finding this site as well as the FastSeduction site a couple months ago, I can confidently say I have become an alpha male, and have the mindset appropriate to become a PUA. I try to put myself in conversational situations with the girls around me daily and learn from experiences I have so I can become more comfortable in these situations.

Anyways, there's an HB8 I've had in science classes since freshman year. I never talked to her freshman year, and I talked to her a couple times Sophomore year but that was because we were in group situations and I had no intention of hitting on her, because honestly I had not the slightest idea how to. This year she sits next to me, and we chat on a daily baisis. Since this summer I've had an insane boost of confidence and have convinced myself no women young or old is worth fearing for any reason, especially when I'm an alpha male. After a couple months of sitting next to her, and slowly beginning to chat with her, she seemed to open up to me last friday. Turns out this HB8 who I thought was just a slut is actually kind of deep, shes got interesting opinions, career goals, but the thing that I hated to hear was a shitty at home life and an even shittier older boyfriend(i think hes like 20),who shes been crazy about for a couple of years. For a while I was just using this chick as practice since i sat next to her. She thinks pretty highly of herself so she's great to neghit. I also try to show willingness to walk away under circumstances in class, and I talk to other girls in the class sometimes as well but not as much as I probably should. I have developed feelings for her though, breaking a major PUA rule and clouding my judgement as far as using techniques and such. After our little convo friday I thought about her all weekend, and was all puppy-loved out and anxious to see her monday. Thank God she was absent. In my clouded state I woulda probably ruined anything I had going. She wasnt here today either, but luckily im starting to come to my senses. Assuming shes in class tomorrow I realize i need to kick up my PUA'ing for sure... I'm going to try and get some kino going, but I read it will be wierd for the chick if you havent been using kino since your first encounters. Will I be able to pull off some kino without being wierd? Another question is, has anybody been in a situation like this and pulled it off?

I know its a very long read but I have a lot on my mind and am thirsting for some advice, so if you read my post thanks for your time.


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PostPosted: Wed Feb 06, 2008 4:12 am 
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I am in a similar situation Flatzen,

I am still new to this PUA scene so please bare with me...

I have been stuck on this one girl for a little while now and it has hindered my gaming. I forget what I am SUPPOSED to do (according to the PUA forums/books) and just go with what I felt was right.

Yours is a tricky situation because you have known her for a while, but start with DHV stories and try to find a common interest that you can, it sounds like you made good progress talking to her last friday. You could try some light kino and see where it goes.

In the mean time try and practice on some other HBs and see how they respond. I hope something in this helps haha, let us know how it goes.


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