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i was just at a job interview and tried working things on the hostess before and after the interview and i was experimenting a few things here and there. one girl was the quiet and inner awkward type(yet still talkative), the other(who was more experienced) was the outgoing happy social type. i found it easier to have control over the quiet girl(and the other girl was too old) so my intent was more on her. ive watched so many videos and i feel like such a newby going through the beginning phases(which i am, but still). there was some down time and the older girl wanted quiet girl to order some lunch. she handed her the menu and i walked with her to a nearby booth. here we just flirted and i charmed her. she mentioned that she was a vegan and i expressed my surprisedness because i am too(i felt like i could have furthered my game at this point by saying something, but just went with what i felt.) she had dimples so i pointed them out as a neg, and it didnt work as planned, as she got shy and closed up a bit more. i tried relaxing her by stressing it was a good thing. i was going to neg her saying "youve worked here how long and dont know where the brownies are?", but she got distracted by people walking in. this is what i want: i want tequniques to escelate the interaction(because i dont know wtf to do after the things i just said), and i want her to be SO focused on me that she either isnt aware of customers, or is too intrigued of me to give a shit.
Lol lay off the negging for now bro. If she's not laughing, you aren't doing it right.
Is your question how to transition into a conversation or how to escalate physically?