So I was talking to this girl for a while, ever since February I think, and we hit it off pretty well, went out on alot of dates, kiss closed, and even ended up doing some crazy things at a park, but we haven't had sex yet. My game was good, but I guess somewhere in there I messed up because I developed oneitis and she just got out of a relationship, so long story short I guess I kind of scared her away, and we haven't talked in a while now (couple months). She used to text me first all the time, but she just stopped having contact with me altogether. I've worked on myself and my natural game, analyzing my mistakes, and i'm gonna reinitiate contact with her, but on a more level playing field where I come across as less needy, and just the cool alpha male.

What should my mindset be this time around? How will I get her to regain the interest she once had? Should I come across as more complacent?

You should go for other girls. We've all been here man, it sucks, but if you don't f-close pretty early on, you don't have much of a chance. Feel free to reinitiate contact as you don't have much to lose, UNLESS, you will get all worked up over her by doing so if she responds. If you will, then I wouldn't even initiate contact as it isn't healthy. However, if you can initiate contact accepting that it most likely will lead to nowhere, go for it.

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No sex in all the times you two hungout? She probably grew frustrated and felt you weren't man enough to make a move and nexted you.