I asked this in relationship forum but didn't get any reply, so maybe u guys can help me out


Background: been dating for 2 months, tons of amazing sex, lots of chemistry and equally horny.
Have had many bj but only one to completion, the rest have been foreplay.

So yest she comes over we star fooling around and she says no go that time of the month... I say ok assuming bj so I press on, only to get hey I'm tired and don't want u to get too turned on... I said how about u put it in ur mouth, she said she was drunk and tired.

Obviously I was supper frustrated and pissed. Had a shtty day and was looking for something more than blue ballz. It's not that much effort how would u guys deal with this, I knew even if I pressed on it wasn't going to happen so I went to bed.

Question: do I bring it up, do I let it go or do I try to get her back by leaving her hanging once so she is not the only one w the power

You say "ok" and go masturbate in the bathroom. Your girl isn't an object. All girls do this. Sometimes people just don't want sex.