Hey so here's the sit-rep, i work in a restaurant and two young ladies were having a birthday meal there the other night. Chatting to them on and off all night while they created a joke dating site profile for a friend who was absent that evening (i found out it wasnt really a joke profile they were kind of genuinely trying to hook her up with someone). I knew that sooner or later they would spot my profile on the same site, and when they did it gave me another good little opener, anyway at this point me and the birthday girl had been chatting for a while now about various things we had in common with a little banter here and there.
So when she mentiones that she did beauty therapy or something in college i ask if she knows anyone that does massages on callout (knowing full-well at this point that she probably does herself) sure enough she puts her hand up in a kind of hey-you're-looking-at-her way so i tell her to drop me her email address before she goes and she agrees.
So later when they leave i'm quite busy but without having to remind her she writes her email down and her friend gives it to me when she pays up for the night.

So now i'm going to email her but i'm not quite sure how to write to her without it needing to be just about business, the fact that she's a masseuse tells me i must approach this with care.

Any suggestions appreciated.

Thanks

Dunkin-Biscuit

Well, you asked for her e-mail on the pretense of needing a massage, did you not? So request for prices, arrangements, etc. Be friendly and fun in your e-mail, but keep in mind your pretense is purely business. Once you have a meeting set up, ask yourself what kind of game you plan on running and apply it in person.

Thats a very good point actually it may be odd to start with anything else.

Any ideas about what to do when i get a massage, if anyones been in a similar situation any ideas about escalating conversation without it seeming weird would be great.