Hey all!

Its been a while since i made a post, that and im not a particular active member. Though this is a community of like minded individuals.

Always grafting, always making mistakes. Up until late i've decided i want to try a realtionship.
So onto the grafting part, met a girl the other night who had pissed herself (that was lovely, charming girl...)
Another was a old school friend who after lovely encounters moved on to see the world.
One actually was an angel and after a very passionate night i soon discovered the bloody mess she had left in my bed (and the nice soaked panties she left behind)
The mistakes continue..regardless i've recently met a girl at work who in my eyes is the most gorgeous, beautiful girl i have ever met.

She constantly flirts, always chats to me, asks me to meet her and generally gives the impression that something might happen. Im a confident guy but with these situations its tricky, its somebody who i would want a realtionship with and would give my heart and soul to...on the other hand...she already has a boyfriend.

I don't know how to move onto this one, there is obviously chemistry but moving onto another mans patch has always been a taboo subject of mine. Especially if the girl is happy, then again in this instance she never seems 100% happy.

So how should i work this one guys?

Same as you would work any other one. Invite her out for drinks after work one day. Game her as usual. Escalate kino and calibrate accordingly. If she gives you the opener, kiss her that night. If she pulls away, but seems bashful and still interested, try to kiss her again that night and see what happens. Move quick, I've been in this situation before and if you don't act immediately her mind will change because she does have the familiarity and comfort of going back to her boyfriend. Lastly, if it works, don't try to talk her into leaving her boyfriend. Just seem like you're open to whatever. Good luck.

Thanks for the help.
Think ill ask her out for a drink just hope things don't go awkward at work

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I agree with PurePlaya, ask her out and see where both of you will end

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Can't think like that, your already screwing yourself over.

>Pureplaya

Hey dude! Took your advice went out for a drink, chatted, flirted etc...I didn't make quite a move though. Instead I dropped the hint "Hey I know you have a boyfriend, but if you guys ever break up I would love to take you out on that date sometime" and just left it at that. She's away for a week so hopefully that little atom bomb will plague her mind. Kinda telling her im not going in the friendzone, but im not going to cross the line either

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"All the ways you wish you could be, thats me. I look like you wanna look, fuck like you wanna fuck, i am smart capable and most importantly free in all the ways you are not."