Most women I date, after like a year the hard to get stops. I have been seeing this one for like a year though, and we are unsaid bf and gf (met the parents both ways, met the friends both ways, been on vaca a few times, ect.) but me or her will NEVER initiate contact after a date unless it is like 2-3 days after said date. She usually waits three freakin days.

Now don't get me wrong, she does other things that speak volumes for her interest:

-tells me how much she likes me
-cancels plans with friends to hang with me
-invites me on vacation
-parents vouch for me
-have sex constantly

But I somehow created a situation (saying how i didnt like ppl smothering me, but i said this a LONG time ago and about girls, not her in particular) where we text after 2-3 days and see each other every 3-4 days. This bothers me. I have her around my finger in person, but usually chicks are freakin impressed/intrigued by my ability to stay away from them for multiple days! (after all, AFC guys nowadays text EVERY day just weeks into a relationship)

What gives?

I'm not sure why she would do this, because I have never expressed anything in regards to it bothering me or that I like it recently. Is she trying to not appear overeager?