Hi All, bit of background was in a LTR for like 2 n half years...since breaking up its been alot of back and forth her showing signs she likes me then sleeping with other people for months now, ive been meeting other girls actually breaking my record of 9 in two weeks after we broke up i major turn lmao....

i noticed it was always me making the contact and it was almost every other day and desided it had to stop, and i had to either get her back or get rid of her, either way had to tell her she cant just have me and all the good caring times with me without the sex and the relationship which is what she was getting...

so i basically went blunt!! she messaged me i ignored she asked if i was ignoring her i said running bath wet hands...got out of bath she messaged me, and carried on through the day about 16 random text messages of song lyrics and random stupid quotes just trying to get a reaction!!! i respond to none till about 3 hours later and answered the only one that made sence...hows u been i said been good out alot.. that was it...

nothing for rest of that day next day she txt me wants to meet up, i said what u thinking (incase it was anything fun)
she said dunno, when u free ...i said not really cleaning and then seeing people...

she said on maybe another day! i said ok! nothing for a few hours then sends me a pic of herself sad face saying just finished work late at night... i didnt respond...

i dont understand how within 24 hours its made such a big difference and does anyone have any advise on how to keep going if i wanted to get her back and have her really chasing me and missing me again!!! im still seeing other girls and having a good time but would still like to enjoy this girls company like that too ...how do i keep her chasing me without being so horrible or blunt she just goes oh fuck him and gives up completely? ? ?

help please ???

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im having a similar issue with a friend. I want to give in, in the kissing but how do i keep her intrigued if i actually go intimate with her. shell now for a fact that i like her if i kiss her. so im like ?????.