OK, I suppose there is a good reason why this isn't mentioned much. Anyhow. My "game" is great online, texting, etc, but weak in person. So i like to open on social media sites, in my comfort zone. The goal is always a hook up of course. Anyway I was on a dating sites a few weeks back after my breakup, and I was still in an emotional funk over it, and had oneitis for this other woman. No replies after a week, so I nuked the account. Been doing my homework on here, reading tons. I pop back on the same site, create a new account. Iv got 5 reply's in less than an hour. One of them was negative, the other 4 were positive. I attribute this to this forum. Thanks to you all! Party on brothers!

See what I mean? I didn't even ask for her number! I don't even know her name yet! Straight from my last email:

I am surrounded by fields. My closest neighbor is about a mile away. Love it! Yes, I really am a stepdaughter, both my parents remarried. I don't know about tomorrow. My son is in ball and it is not uncommon for the coach to call practice at the last minute. He does not have another game until Thursday so I expect him to schedule one Tuesday or Wednesday. I would like to meet for coffee, though. Would it be possible to meet earlier though so I can go straight from work? Say 5:30? If practice gets scheduled I'll let you know as soon as I can. My number is xxx-xxx-xxxx if you would rather text.