So I was catching up with an old g.f/fwb from last summer recently since she came back from travelling for a year for school. well I originally messaged her saying come over to my place and lets catch up, she agreed but plays stupid young girl games and did not. after getting annoyed and having a drink or two I told her honestly " if you want to see me and just get physical than text me, that is all we really had so why not be honest and not have to make plans and such" she obviously didn't take it well but what do you think? someone recommended this on this forum and I'm happy I did send this because the girl always played games when it came to coming over and now that everything is in her court I am happy. she certainly did not take it well saying stuff like " I thought you grew up" stuff like that.

yeah...it just doesnt sound right. maybe you couldve taken things a bit slower. but anyway, if she wants to fuck shell call right? i really think she wont but if she does, its great. good luck bro.

I dont see it either but now I can get her off my mind, any other opinions would be great too.

If your best line is come over so we can fuck, your never going to get laid unless she's a giant slut whose comfortable with being treated like a giant slut. This was pure beta and I did this a couple of times before I became a PUA. It seems like you got frustrated with her constantly flaking on you and you just threw out a hail mary. Its obvious you didn't build up enough escalation and you should of went no contact as soon as she started flaking on you. Learn from this and game many other women and next time a chick repeatedly flakes on you, you won't care because you'll be talking to more girls than just her.

Yah I understand, the thing is we used to have sex all the time, normally I wouldn't do this with a new girl that I never slept with cause I know this wouldn't work but since we used to have sex all the time together why not right?

After a certain period of time girls expect you to earn it again. Esp if they've gotten it from more than one guy or had a short relationship since the last time you were regularly going at it. Agree w/ themagicalone that you just threw any chance with her away with that 'if you want to be physical lets do it' line.

Sex has more consequences for her than for you, so find a way to make it worth it, esp if there's no alcohol or kino involved and you're just using your phone. gotta work at it.

Lol Next time just try "what up slut" you'll have more luck.