Allright guys I need help. I've been trying to improve my dating life and making almost no progress for far too long. I have major approach anxiety, but that's not the issue because I know if I push through and keep practicing, I'll get used to it. The problems I can't seem to get past are:

1. I live in a small town (Savannah, GA). There aren't many people here and the night life is pretty much concentrated all in one area, so the odds of running into a set that rejected me before are pretty high. To make matters worse, whenever I do go out it's not uncommon for me to run into someone from work. I have a promising career and I don't want to develop a reputation in the office as "that weird guy who runs around hitting on girls".

2. I have no wingmen. Some of my friends are single guys, but if I tried to introduce this stuff to them they wouldn't understand, and would probably think less of me for it. I've tried posting on this forum for wings but haven't had much success, probably due to item #1. Going out to practice even for just one night takes a huge amount of motivation, and without someone else to do it with me I just don't think it's possible.

If anyone can see a solution to these problems, please let me know. I would love to handle this and move on!

Okay but you asked.

1.The population of Savannah Georgia 139,491 The male to female ratio is 100:108, and the female to male ratio is 93:100.
The male population is 105,216, and the female population is 113,443.
There are 8,227 more females than males in Savannah; in percentage terms, there are 7.25% more females than males.
The median male age is 35.14 years, and the median female age is 38.16 years.

That's 8,227 females between 20 and 40 that you have not met yet.

Take off your blinders boy! CHANGE venue. GOOGLE it yourself it's shitty I had to do it for you!

2. Can you take a piss with out wing-men? "if I tried to introduce this stuff to them they wouldn't understand."

So you have approach anxiety with men too? You "think" they wouldn't understand so why try?
You can only meet women at night? You can only meet them in one concentrated area?

Find out where women 35-40 hang out. It's easier than offering cake to a fat kid.

Did I cover both excuses?

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1. Who cares if you run into someone from work, its only weird if you make it weird, your a single guy at a club I'm pretty sure your allowed to go at girls.
2. You don't need a wing, I go out with friends to clubs but I don't have wings. I go somewhere by myself and game girls while they do their own thing.