So this girl and I were kind of friends before, and one night we were hanging out with some friends. We were both kind of drunk and got really flirty. We made out a little that night, and she texted me all the rest of that night. Next day, she hardly talks to me. Then, recently she tells a friend of ours that she wants to hook up, and I think kind of do the friends with benefits thing, but she has been cold. Then all of the sudden this weekend she wants to text back and forth a lot. I'm supposed to hang out with her and get a couple of beers this week, and I would really like to get this friends with benefits thing going, but she's so hot and cold. I just want to know some good ways to dive into this head first, and have her wantin this shit real bad. Any tips?