lets say you guys have this friend that finds you a bit attractive but you dont like that much but would like to manipulate into a little more. she insists in the hugging and the kissing even thou you already told her you just like her as a friend. how do you manipulate her if you are giving in on her demands? i mean if everytime she kisses you you come up with the same lame excuse that you just want her as a friend but you kiss her back how do you keep her intrigued if you are eventually showing her that you like her? i can understand that you can not give in sometimes but when you eventually give in you eventually show her that you like the intimacy with her. i guess my main question is how would you maintain the mystery for her (does he really like me) and give in at the same time?

By talking to other women......... Wtf lol

The girl is throwing herself at you... Escalate to the level you want.

I don't understand what you are asking... Are you looking for a friends with benefits deal or what??