Hello

I need some advice of you guys! I'm now single for over a year but i enjoyed it and regular dated some women. But now last week on a friday (now friday will be two weeks), i met a girl who is 24, i'm 22 and she is the best friend of a very good girlfriend of me. We were both really drunk and we kissed that entire night. Two days later after a huge hangover she started talking to me but we didn't mention about the kissing, we just chat about random stuff, most things about her life. And all of sudden i started to like her, haven't had that feeling since well... a bit over a year.. Now we've been chatting for a bit more than week, and i have seen her once since that night, just on a night out again, was last saturday, we partied and talked but we both had no intentions. She also has no boyfriend or isn't dating other guys. Our chats are very long, really, haven't had such a long chats in a long time with someone. But now i'm bit stuck.. I don't know where to go because my best girlfriend was joking about it couldn't happen again, yet i'm pretty sure her friends and that good girlfriend doesn't know she is talking to me that much. She even texts me while she is with her friends and i'm home or somewhere else with my friends. But now i don't know what to do? I want to ask her out, but i'm afraid its already to late after those long chats, i'm afraid i'm friendzoned or she say something like: are you sure it is a smart idea or what would my friends say about it.. And i don't know how to respond to that? If i can get her on a date i know how to go on, but i don't know how to get her on that date without being polite rejected or she telling something about she being to old.. Now i'm afraid we will lose conversation because i don't ask her out and she will think of nothing seeing me again, so why talk then? I see her on friday btw, but she doesn't know i'll be there and its not quite sure i'll be there, but normally i will. So do i ask her out already or do i wait till after friday to ask her out?? Or will i make no chance?
Can you give advice?

You need a different mindset approaching this situation. If you like her, just show up to the 'party' but dont go searching for her. Have your fun, she will approach you if she wants to. When she does dont jump her either. Have bit of a small chat, get as close as you can to her (watch her body language), and then kiss her infront of everyone (dont ask her or say you will, just pull her chin towards you). If she backs out, just walk away, she will go searching for you.

Dont get sucked into long chats or anything too deep or serious. Keep it light, aim to bang her, tease her by standing close and not kissing her or touching her.

Hope that helps.

You need to be direct and ask her out. Don't go searching for her Friday and do not be the first one to approach. If she does approach game her a little, escalate and go at her there. If you can't be direct and let her know that your thinking of giving her the chance of going out with you(shows confidence), don't over think it though or you'll screw yourself over.

Seems like you prettying know what you're doing, but nerves are in the way. I would agree not to think tooucj of it. While sleeping with a woman quickly does wonders for her perception of you (if cards are played right during and after), don't give off the vibe that you just want to bang. She seems very honest and direct. I'd let her know you enjoy her company and WHY. Give her a sense of security in terms of the way you think. "This guy doesn't want to just have sex, he enjoys me for who I am, he's going places and I want to go with him."

yes indeed! nerves are in the way.. It's because i started to care, the feeling of maybe losing something i like.. otherwise i don't have that problem.. Should i text her for a meeting right away or should i wait till i see her friday to ask her out to go drinking something?

I'd wait it out until Friday. That may suck, but take that time to get your mind together. The VERY WORST thing you can do is think based solely off of feelings. If she texts, don't make it seem like your ignoring her. Just give the impression you're a little busy. One thing that gets good responses all the time was letting her text first, then respond with a simple "I was just talking about you". Or give her a call while you have a few friends over. Make sure they are trying to get your attention in the backgrounds d give he impression you are havin a good time. Keep the conversation 5 minutes tops, then end with "I just wanted to see how you were doing." This shows 1) You were thinking of her while with people you enjoy. 2) you took time out to see how she's feeling. These can be done later as well.

Most importantly, know that you are everything that will make ANY GIRL completely happy and she is a damn lucky girl to have your interest. Why? Most other guys don't have a clue how to please her. But you do! Believe this. Know this. Feel this. How do you feel this? Compliment a woman on something genuine. Like her hair? Does that color look great on her? What about that new shirt? Tell her! Make someone else feel good and their gratitude will confirm that you have everything you need to make ANY GIRL happy.

Never let a girl have control of your emotions! It will NEVER end in your favor! You are a man and you don't need validation.

Now go out there and make it happen!

Okay.. thanks for the tip!

Now last night i heard something weird.. I saw one of her friends and she mentioned that night, now the friend said that she totally regret that night we made out and she was a bit ashamed of that night..

Now in fact i can understand it, she is two year older.. I don't care but women do care more often about age..
But why should say something like that but then she is talking to me like for two weeks?? Makes no sense to me..

Def something i wouldn't do... What's going on?