Okay this girl and I have been on and off, I'm pretty keen on her, but lately she's been not really talkative and i havnt seen her for a few weeks because she is supposedly way too busy SPAM to even see me. I pretty much said I'm not gonna bother with her anymore, and then I completely ignored her for a couple days. In those couple days she messaged me all the time trying to get my attention, so I just kept ignoring her. Then yesterday she messaged me saying so are you gonna talk to me or am i not worth the trouble? I told her I was simply over trying with her and was wasting my time. She then kept saying that she was extremely busy SPAM and wished she could see me but she just didn't have the time. Then i said seriously if I'm wasting my time tell me right now.
She replied with
no dont say wasting time cause obviously id still wanna talk to u and stuff i just dont have time to see u
so if u take it as that then so be it. but i dont think any of this is wasting time.. if u wanna move on from me and start being wit other chicks okay..cause i totally understand how shit this situation is so i dont wannna stuff u around waiting for me...

Im really keen on this girl, i have been playing it cool and i don't think she would go to all the trouble of this if she wasn't interested...so what should i do based on her reply?? am i wasting my time? should i give up? or should I just keep it cool, friendly and let her come to me now when she's ready???

would much prefer a reply that will help me with a solution or a next step of getting her...Not just a reply saying give up...but if you really think i should give up then tell me.

This chick an ER doctor? Training for a marathon? I mean I've had jobs where I work 80-100 hrs a week and if I were into a girl I'd make time...

I guess she COULD be genuinely busy. If she didn't want you bothering her she wouldn't be pushing for your acceptance. Then again it seems so odd to me that she doesn't have a spare second.

Maybe she likes the attention. She gives you just enough you hang around?

tried finding out what she is actually doing maybe???

1: if all she ever says is busy, she is fucking with your head wants to nice talks the person to chase her make her feel wanted while she is doing her own thing

2: if she wont tell you or refuses to probably still fucking with your head or its so serious you need to say, if its serious hun, we shouldnt see each other till its all sorted so u can focus completely...

3:if she actually says um studying or babysitting or job hunting or an actually good reason...offer to do it with her help out if she still shoots you down just say well ill let you no when im next free to meet up, u can do the same(meaning her)...

and stop messaging her or calling her and that apart from once in a blue moon reply with, yea im good been with a mate alot out all the time so i forget to reply etc...something to show your living fine without her

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