Hello,

I met this girl 8 months ago, we dated for a long time but nothing happened until last week where we had sex of Saturday and slept together.

Background: The woman is 34, she had 2 long term relationships, she has been single for 3 years but she is feeling good and having fun for the past year or so and doesn't want a relationship.

Current situation: Saturday was the first time we had sex, then we meat again on Sunday with no sex but all hugs and kisses, Monday we didn't meet, Tuesday I went her place had sex and cuddled all night and last night the same thing. Note that all times she contact me and the sex is more than good.

The problem: I never asked for a relationship or anything more than what we currently have so I just go with the flow. She told me the past two days twice that I shouldn't fall in love with her because she doesn't want to hurt me and that she still doesn't want a relationship. So she says all this stuff but she acts as in she is in love e.g. kissing my hands while sleeping, cuddling all night, holding my hands in bed, looking into my eyes and kiss and all that stuff! I offered to leave after sex but she always wants me to stay.

Is she just enjoying my company and utilizing me to the full to extract certain experiences or does she do it because she really means it?

Thanks

Well, if you woke up because some girl is fondling your cock or caressing your chest, it simply means one thing and one thing only: she wants another round of that f-marathon.

Girls do nice things for guys when they're horny and you've banged them good. Don't get mixed up between the manifestation of a girl's high sex drive and love. The signs of love are different things; she's just on her way to get there by feeling horny around and about you.

Don't over think things. Just fuck her real good. If you fuck her no more than once a week and make yourself scarce, then that will be good for the both of yah in the long run.

Meanwhile, sarge other girls.

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Ok you are right she does have a high sex drive but so that I get this straight...is she starting to fall for me or is it just sex?

When you say once a week how will that be good for the both of us?

It's just sex. Love isn't there yet.

So how do you know if it's love? You can try some compliance tests indicators like:

Say, if she has some cash stashed away for a rainy day like US $2,500 and you accidentally mention about a financial problem, she'll loan you everything without thinking twice about it. Her emotions will take over her logic. That's love. If she loans you $100, then she's just horny. Her emotions are not that strong and her logic is alive and kicking.

If you want to deepen her feelings fer yah, go out together on a bungee jumping vacation. Scarcity dynamics also work wonders for passionate relationships. Too much comfort due to your unlimited availability kills passion. Without passion or the intensity of it, there can be no romantic love.

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Ok thanks. I actually didn't mean she was in love with me, I just thought she started to have feelings. Maybe she has a few feelings because she said she does get jealous when she sees me flirt and that she is a bit scared when she is with me because she likes me unlike her previous sex buddy where she was more comfortable with because he wasn't her style....so does she have feelings at all? Not in love, just feelings that will take her there however high she builds her walls....I don't want to be delusional...

What more do you want? She feels horny for you and she's fucking you. Most guys who ask advice in the GQ section are not so lucky.

Again, do not over think this too much. It's bad for your mental health and relationship. Over thinking about one girl makes you needy and you'll lose her attraction fast.

Sarge other girls; best advice there is if you want this relationship to more forward with a happy ending that's favorable to both of you.

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