| Hey guys. I really need your advice on this situation. Please excuse my poor english, it's not my native language. So ok.
I study at the uni with some girl I like (so obvious). We don't know each other, but I want to change that so bad! I study physics and she studies foreign languages, so we don't have any lectures together. We have our lectures on different floors of the same building. But sometimes we see each other in the uni yard (or on her floor, but not often) where she's always with her friends and I'm with mine (but sometimes I sit on a bench alone and text with my non-university friends, listen to music etc). And I never have a chance to talk to her in private (and even if I had I didn't know what to say) cause she's never alone. Wait! Once I had. That was in January. I saw her on her floor standing all alone (she was waiting for her friend) and I thought it was a great chance to finally talk to her! I asked her if she knew where I could find my French teacher (she knows him, she studies languages). She smiled at me (I was surprised. Why? I'll explain that later) and said she didn't. But then suddenly she said "wait. Lets check the schedule". We found out what lecture room the teacher was in, then I said "thank you" and went away. I know it was silly to just say thanks and went away, but I think it was a right decision. Because everyone started staring at us and whispering about something (they really did, and that was weird af). I thought that embarrassed her and decided to leave. I think those guys didn't like that I talked to her (but to be honest, we didn't talk about anything but "do you know where...." and "let's check the schedule") that's why they acted that weird. Why do I think so? Well. She don't really have any friends at the uni. She only talk to like 4 guys and 5 girls and spend all her time with them. She looks cold, but that smile she gave me made me think she only wants to look cold. But I'm not sure. Many guys always stare at her, but never try to talk to her.
I tried and I want to again.
But I don't know how to start conversation again. I don't know what to talk to her about if I started conversation. I'm really bad at it. I never did it. No, I have female-friends, but they all are my school friends, friends of my friends, my friends sisters, neighbors etc. But I never met girls on the street or something. And I don't wanna fail when I talk to that girl.
I heard her talking to her friends about the guys they blew off and laughing at them. I don't want to be one of those guys.
Please give me some advice guys! Thanks
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