Okay so theres this girl, she liked me when I didn't like her, but then when I liked her she came up with the whole oh but I don't want to get into a relationship anymore, and we have been hanging in between all this shit. lately She's been ignoring me and always busy when I ask to see her, pretty much being a bit of a bitch who thinks she's too good. I got fed up with this and gave her a sign that I had given up and pretty much said cya. Now she won't stop sending me txt's and messages on facey trying to get my attention/ asking whats up with me or whatever obviously because I am now ignoring her completely. She seems to be very agitated by my sudden change, and I'm hoping to get her to be the one to like me again, because i really like her. So what should I do? just keep ignoring and not seem weak or what? not sure....I really want to get this chick.

This is on Facey I'm guessing that's facebook? First off you need to get her number, talking on facebook for awhile makes it look to weak, anyone can talk to someone online. After you've gotten her phone number send a good opener be direct and ask to meet one on one, you need to escalate in person. If she declines or flakes on the one on one DO NOT CONTACT HER, she is probably just be playing mind games with you at this point and just loves your attention but has no priority in seeing you.

Be a bit aloof with her, but not too aloof. Cat and the string...it seems as though when you are too accessible to her she loses interest, but when you're completely aloof/distant she pursues you - be somewhere in between. The cat wants that shiny object until the moment it gets it, the key here is to entice the cat with the prospect that it will get the object at some point (like dangling a carrot in front of a donkey), BUT if the cat starts believing it will NEVER get the elusive shiny object, it will eventually lose interest and move onto the next interesting thing that comes along.