yo i have a situation with a girl, let me first explain.

it has been almost a year since i met her. we met at a house party, i invited a few girls to come and i had hooked u with one of them before.

that girl came with a friend. that friend was hot and i wanted nothing to do with the other girl anyway so i started running game oin this other girl and even though she refused to hook up with me she gave me her number and we chatter over the phone quite a lot.

i invited her out many times and she was like idk bla bla. one day she toled me why she couldnt say yes to me that easily. she had a kid.

so after a lot of thought i decided i was still going to give it a shot and the day before we went out the texted me that she was probably going to go back with her ex soon. i was emotionally envolved so i wasnt about to share her.

so i toled her ok i understand his the father of your child i wont get mad but our thing cant go on.

there was a long chat after this and then i didnt talk to her for a good month or two.

the other week i sent her a sms. she was happy to hear from me and said stuff like i witsh i was there with you, etc.

so i invited her out and she was like i cant this week lets do it next week. ok. i couldnt that week cuz i had exams, so 3 weeks later we were about to go out and she sent me a text, i was kinda in a bad mood so even though i was polite and all she felt it and when i toled her if she was ready for friday she didnt answer. a few days later i texted her saying im sorry for the other day i was in a bad mood. she was like oh im sorry ,
why didnt you say so? its all good.

so yeah after talkkiing a bit i invited her out again and she was like idk if i can i have this and this (all true) that day. it was near my college so i was like why dont i come and visit you? and then we can go for coffe of something. she had to do something for her college.

she was like ok yeah but idk what shift i have.

i said ok send me a text tomorrow we'll figure it out.

she was like oh well idk. thats kind of asking a lot.

(i think she was mad for the other day) so yeah i didnt know what to say. things have been going down hill with her lately. i actually like her quite a bit though. the conversation went on for a bit and then she went to shower.

can i do something at this point or is it softnext time?

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Sounds like she's done with you - she's blatantly making up excuses not to see you at this point.

Your "bad mood" text may have been what did it.

Next!

you think so? like this was all the same week, maybe it was just her angry with me for ignoring her.

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I agree but you need to be going at other girls and forget this girl, from what you wrote she's still emotionally invested in her ex and even if you did get with her you'd always be number 2.