Hi

Very new to the PUA concept but been doing some reading/studying

Went to speed dating around a year ago, scored nothing. Went again on on sat got 4 yes matches including my favourite of the night a truly lovely (and older) blonde hb9. Very nicely suprised!

Just goes to show you can improve your game if you put your mind to it!!

However i am still an AFC no doubt so ANY tips on the following really apreciated.

Tone of 1st email, how quickly to ask for (and how) phone number or meeting up, wording (e.g you want to go on a date or you want to meet, etc)? Any 1st date tips, any cool ideas for 1st meeting

Im thinking wait a day or 2 to email as don't want to seem overkeen

P.S anyone else tried speed dating? Seems like a good "newbie mission" to me, and especially as it may even lead to some dates!

Your opinions are gratefully recieved!

Hey dude,

Personally have not yet tried but have a friend who's addicted to speed dating. In one good night - he can score 4-5 dates instantly.

His advice is Go Direct and think FUN FUN FUN.
You have set time span and everybody there is unprepared. To take full advantage, best to prepare your game plan in advance and memorise some interesting questions.

Treat every girl as though have known her for years. If you are really stuck for ideas, use opinion openers that are weird and usual:
- Do you think I look gay? Always gets a laugh
- When kissing, is it ever too early to use tongues?
- What is your definition of a fun date?
You: Feed of her suggestion and repackage and say it back to her.
- On a scale of 1-10, how good a kisser are you?
What she says, be unimpressed and say I guess you need more practice (smile)

To make an impression: Read up on peacocking(do a thread search) so that your dress sense and questions make stand out.

Have fun
Touch

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