So there's this girl I've been interested in for a while. I see her around maybe once a month. We would make long eye-contact and smile at eachother before we even knew who the other person was (been running into her like once a month for a year or so now).

We have since been introduced. I saw her at a bar on Wednesday, grabbed her by her hand, pulled her to me, talked to her for a bit, gave her a hug, then we parted ways with "maybe we'll run into eachother later."
We didn't and I was too stupid to get a number... I have her on FB, but no cell. I know attraction dies quickly, so how do pursue this without looking like I'm pursuing this?

I was thinking a FB message that goes something like "we should chill sometime after finals, [my number] text me whenever."
But I'm also new at this so that's probably the opposite of what I should do.


Any help would be awesome, thanks!

is she your friend on fb ?
if yes, then she would have messaged you if she wanted to,
if no, then yeah you should definitely write her something but keep it short, and don't give your phone number too quickly... a simple "hey I'm that guy you met, how are you" would be fine to start with!