I'm starting to believe these are impossible. Or am I getting the wrong women,I've never been the type to chase but there's a time when I just want to be around my girl if you get me. Like ok maybe I want to talk to her 3 days in a row some days,other days I'm cool. The thing is as soon I show I care they like ok time to take what I want. Now I'm not into the relationship scene at all anymore on the serious level,but I wonder is it wrong for a man to want to just be with his girl? I mean its like as soon as they know you care about them too its like ok its ok to not to give a shit. So should I always be I don't give a fuck at all?

absolutely bro!
never show that you care too much, but still, show that you care a bit.
keep yourself busy with other stuffs, don't give her too much time, but show some attention.

just like us, they don't like "sticky people who are too available"

Wanting a relationship is normal, and an indication of healthy development. Wanting to screw around all the time is a sign of dysfunction, likely the result of needing external validation because you have a weak self-concept.

That was damn well-worded and completely accurate. +1