When I start fully devoting myself to PUA material, I may find myself quickly in a situation in which a could get someone to be my girlfriend. Would it be beneficial for my development as a PUA? I'm going to be in another country next year, so I feel that even if I do become exclusive with a single girl, we will eventually have to break up. Plus I still have strong feelings for my current girlfriend, whom I am going to have to break up with soon.

Would my time be better spent approaching girls in clubs and whatnot? Anyone have experience with this situation? And would this situation lead me to be more prone to "oneitis" in the future? I need to focus on developing my game, but I'm on a college campus with lots of potential girlfriend material. I am not really into open relationships, because I enjoy the experience of falling in love with someone.

Being in a monogamous serious relation ship and being a play boy, fucking new girls each week are the two different ends of the spectrum.

Having experienced both is really healthy and will help you know what you want in life. If I were you, I´d try the play boy life for two reasons. Firstly, you´ve done the relationship thing, you know how it´s like. Lastly, you´re in a new environment with girls you don´t know, which mean you can experiment as much as you want to.

However if you are a busy man, the stability of a monogamous relationship can be really nice, unless it crashes.

What I´d recommend is that for this year you just get fuck buddies, starting with this girl. If you want one or multiple at the time, that´s your choice. That way you´ll enjoy having experienced a part of the play boy life, but still have the time to focus on your work, since you´ll always be a phone call away from tail. Also you won´t be forced to suffer another breakup due to moving around.

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