ill try and make this really short...ok theres this girl i really like, we started hanging like a month ago, she really liked me (i mean wanted to see me almost everyday like) and i told her that i didn't want anything cause i had just broken up with my ex so we can keep hanging and maybe something might happen....so we kept hanging and everything was fine, we would kiss, sex etc.. Eventually I started liking her then two weekends ago i stupidly drunk called her telling her i liked her etc (not sure what else was said)...this turned her off a bit cause she didn't really talk to me much and i only saw her once that week, she also told me she didn't want a relationship SPAM....then last weekend i went out and i texted her and she never texted back and drunk me again got annoyed and sent her drunk txts saying thanks for ignoring me etc...turns out her phone had broken and she lost all her contacts etc...and also that night when i was out, because i was confused about us, i kissed a girl on the dance floor and turns out she works with this girl i like....and she found out etc...and she wasn't happy...but i told her pretty much i had done nothing wrong cause you told me you didn't want a relationship or anything so I'm not going to wait around for her. Now she's not really talking to me and hasn't asked to hang or anything! I think she's playing games with me or something...but i know she does like me still, i think she's cut about me kissing that girl and abit turned off by the drunk calls....What should i do? like i just want us to be casual friends again, just hanging out etc and want her to really like me again like she did when we first kinda met... for example her texting me and wanting to hang all the time...So whats your advice? how do i get this girl? like turn things around so I'm not the one doing all the work if you know what i mean...Help me please, i like her so much!!! I need to fix this.

Sorry to hear about your one-itis.

My advice: cut her off. Show her that your life is even better without her. DVH. Move on because it wont go back to the way things were. Your too invested in this one girl and now she knows it too.

Sounds like a whole train of newbie mistakes. I'd say move on dude. I literally got slapped with a breakup from a 3 month relationship with a girl I was falling in love with yesterday. I had a whole 3 lines to say about it, and ended the conversation civilly and calmly. She won't be hearing from me again. I suggest you do the same. Best to move on. If she comes back, then its great, if not, you had no chance anyways.
Best of luck.

EXACTLY