[college story]

I befriend an HB9, who shows IOIs but is always talking about her boyfriend. I go to her dorm two weeks ago and meet her HB9 roommate. Last friday, both come to a party of mine (I have a 2bed apt), and both stay over in my bed - I k-close the roommate rather easily, while flirting/teasing the taken girl. It's very clear that both of them are attracted to me at this point.

Over the last week, develop a casual relationship with the roommate, yet LMR kills me (she's a virgin. Ugh). Still, really cool chick to hang out with. The taken girl asks me if I might be a third in an MMF with her boyfriend, agrees to have sex on camera with my current #1 girl, and even admits to having a dream about having sex with me.

Last night, another (small) party, and they both stay over again - however, the taken girl laments that last time she was lonely because I gave all of my attention to her roommate. So I agree to cuddle mainly with her, and sometime in the middle of the night I start escalating with her (with her roommate behind me), kissing her neck, she's moaning, things become a blur and right when I try to finger her she basically SNAPS and starts freaking out (as noted, she's in a LDR of 2 years) thinking it was only a dream. In two years she'd never done anything like that while in her relationship. I leave the room, the girls talk, then I talk to her, we agree it was a mistake and not going to happen again, and everything seems okay. Taken girl decides to tell her boyfriend what happened later that day.

Later, roommate comes and knocks on my door saying that she was told EXACTLY what happened. Roommate is pissed at me, not so much that I was messing with another girl "Why didn't you just turn over!?" but moreso that I "took advantage of her after she'd been drinking" and put a nice big thorn in that relationship. Both girls were texting me later, I just went into apology mode, but basically the taken girl is not allowed to hang out with me anymore and roommate says "we can still be friends but it's gonna take some time".

You know, just re-reading this, I can tell I'm not an AFC anymore. I failed at this threesome attempt pretty badly, but it's a hell of a lot better than the old "nice guy" would have been able to accomplish.

I'd ask advice, but I'm going to guess the best course would be to just take some space from both of em. Let time do its job. Semester's almost over anyway.