MY ONEITIS I THINK I LOVE HER. I SE HER 2 GUYS NOW ON DIFFERENT OCCASIONS, realy i dont know how or why i like her so much but i do and tonight i se her otherguy pis me off really. sorry caps i removed.

she told m she wanna met after this week for shisha i am piised i dno what to do really.

i am thinking bout writing to her : you have boyfriend, if yes dont message me again understand? or something similar to this message, what is best way of punish bitch and geting over my oneitis+??????????????

please i think i love this girl and i dont know why i wanna fuck cry over this but i cant. i even try at club and i got 7 other girls number even the bartender which i worked hard to get number. 4 of this girls was infront of this bitch i see she try not to look at me i try to hurt her lik she hut me really im sad heeeelllp please


how can i remove her from my head???????????????????????????????????????????

please this it is tearing me apart i wanna cry really

Hey Boya

I had a oneitis too before. I thought she was the most beautiful thing in the damn wide world, she was funny, witty, and sexy. At age sixteen, I promised I'd marry her when I'd grown up. Now isn't that cute?

Then comes Tyler. He is funnier than I am, more sociable than I am, has more friends than I do, and worst of all my girl likes him more than me.

I see them flirting all the time and it would seriously make me depressed. Angry resentful and fucking pissed off. I wanted to kill Tyler.

But here's the thing you will come to understand. Your girl, my girl. It's not them we are in love with. It's our idolized image of them. We think they are the funniest, wittiest, sexiest, smartest, the best girl in the world that only we deserve to have.

But that's not it. They are just another person, just like us. They are no more special or better than us or anyone else for that matter.

What you can do to get over her is to spend a little time away from her. Meet other people, other girls. Find things in other girls that you find legitimately find attractive. Eventually you will realize that there are many other girls just as good as her and many that you can like more than her.

^^^he nailed it. I think we've all had oneitis at one point of our lives. Is just a part of life!