Hi guys,

As I'm from Korea and staying in European country, language barrier has always been my problem.
I can be quite witty and playful if I were to text a girl since I can take some time thinking about it.
But when it comes to face-to-face conversation, unless I am in the 'zone', I barely talk a lot.

I know that I got to keep move out of my comfort zone, but this whole being "witty and playful" during the conversation seems so difficult. Also when I get nervous, I forget about hook n lead, and statement based conversation.

Can anybody suggest what I can do to build up my conversation skills and become witty?


P.S. I am not always an introvert, but I tend to be better (way better) at speaking when I am only with the girl who I like. For example, I kinda get nervous when I talk to girl I like AT school. I once invited her over to my place, but surprisingly I spoke very fluently and the whole convo went fantastic! I don't know why, for most of people it seems they're opposite.

Thank you very much guys, this forum is helping a lot!