I have a sticking point.

I have been flaked on a few times this past week, three times. Other members have told me I show too much attraction and that the girls are catching on...however I still neg the girls, what's going on?

Yesterday, I got flaked on because the girl said "You are coming off too strong."

Here is an example of my texting style with a girl that flaked. I never act needy, and I never would have thought that I am showing too much attraction.

Moscow: You know, you don't even realize how cute you look when you try to look cool.
HB: Lmao I try to be cool???:P
Moscow: yeah you like stand around and pretend to be on the phone, One day, Ill take it and won't give it back.
HB: D: NOOO
Moscow: if you give me a hug ill let you use it for a few minutes though
HB: okay(:
Moscow: heres how it will work. Hug-3Minutes, Kiss-4Minutes, Take me to Chuckie Cheese-"keep the phone im busy climbing the slides."
HB: -_- yur a loser ! lol
Moscow: Thanks you are a sweetheart. I can totally see you taking a picture with the chuckie cheese mascot and posting it on instagram. "#SayCheese"
HB: HAHAHAHAHA YEAH ((;

Can you guys give me some pointers on ways to speak and act to seem like i am a greater challenge? I'm not new to the game. And I understand Negs, however I stopped using a phrase that always worked for me before. "Too bad you aren't my type." Maybe I should start using it again.

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