so after dating a few HBs with awesome, fun, intelligent, loud & Slightly Nerdy personalities (coolest people I have ever met) I have next to no interest in dating women without one, no matter how hot they are.

only wanting to date a girl who will give me one-itis
seems like personality has become MORE important than looks for me

anyone else similar or am I just turning into a woman?

I think that the look is important but when I get atracted for a woman (atracted, not excited) it is because her personality enchants me. I like the rebel, overactiv and laughging personality.

But im trying to break this because when I am speaking with a woman who has these skills she intimidates me and i act like a AFC and my face become like a red tomato. And also I say craps and keep looking her eyes constantly.

You can be attracted to whatever you want. I have hardly ever even had one night stands with the complete "airhead" types. Anyone who can't have a reasonable discussion with some level of intelligence just makes me lose all interest straight away. As for dating, why get serious until you've found someone who you really click with? My thinking is that I may as well sleep with loads of girls I like the look of (and who are not complete airhead bimbo types) and then if I find one who is really great personality wise I'll see where that goes.

You get out of this game whatever you want to put in; lots of lays fine do that, a more serious relationship fine do that too. Go for what you find attractive, not what other people think you should find attractive, and that goes for the personality v looks debate as much as it does anything else.

i should mention i do only daygame and dont like pulling on the first date.
i suppose the sex is also just waaay better when you have a good emotional connection (but no relationship)