Ok .. I'M A LITTLE LATE ON THIS ONE BUT..I am in my mid 30's new to the realization of an actual pua lifestyle.. I have always had a way with being able to pu women naturally with little effort but recently I have had the same problem with 2 women.. all Is good until the condom goes on then my manhood goes down. I get them to go down i get rock again but as soon as I go back in... I lose it again. Now its messing with me... Cuz I think about it with new prospects and here we go again. Both women either got distant or said they wanna take it slow.. and take sex of the table and take it slow after that happened. Really fkn with my ego. I really feel like the condoms are the problem cuz the head gets me going and i can beat off with no problem. plus I have 2 exs that I have no problem with but I go raw. Both the new girls were brand new with amazing chemistry and into me until this. Wtf?!

In your head man lol. Don't think about your dick, or how your doing, think about her and how sexy she looks. Talk dirty to her, it works for her AND you. I used to have the same problem and it was cause I was over thinking like crazy.

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This has happened to me a lot. It helps to drink 2-3 beers to get your mind off of it, and have an empty bladder and colon. Also, if you give her oral and get her off, it takes a ton of pressure off of you to perform. After she orgasms, it's pretty much your turn, and you can do whatever you want and just enjoy yourself without having to worry about impressing her.

Thanks alot for the input. I new these answers but haven't been able to stop overthinking. So now I'm just gonna cut em all off and start fresh.. or do I attempt to redeem my self esteem? I don't wanna look like I'm begging now.. or some lame with a point to prove. Now they have plans on the weekends when before this they were calling me all the time and trying to hang out.

Ok . Saw the first one at a kids baseball game yesterday.. she was all over me and playfully hitting me.. kinda mad cuz i have avoided her calls and texts for almost 2 weeks. I didn't even reply or give an answer. I was confident.. playful and said nothing about anything regarding my freeze out behavior. I wanna hit that again so any advice. I just flirted and left it at that. Do I wait to see If she reaches out? Also had the 2nd one over last night and had some wine.. and we pleasured eachother of and on for 5 hrs. In fact she made it her business to try and make me reach 3 times. She was amazed and kept complimented how good my tounge game was and how amazing the sex was. She was all dopey eyed and touching me after. I asked her to leave at 6 am.. before my daughter woke up and she respected and like it even more. She just invited me over for breakfast. Don't know what the hell I did fellas but I'm in there on both chicks without trying. I need to learn how to control what I obviously have the ability to do. I attract.. close and get in but don't know how I'm doing it. Wanna be able to do it on command and confidently on any girl. Guide me! Lol.