Can anyone point me into the right direction for information about day game? I am experienced with Night Game and feel like the two are very different. For example you would not approach a group of girls in a coffee shop and ask "Did you see the fight outside?" Or say "I'm lost and I cant find my friends." The following is my understanding of Day Game along with examples of what I have learned through experience and questions that I still have. I would love feed back, constructive criticism, and more examples.

Thanks
Jamin



I understand that there are three ways to open a set during the day which are:

1 .Direct
2. Indirect
3. Situational

After the opener is said you want to make an emotional connection by asking questions about her life and show a genuine interest. Do not bombard her with questions like it is a job interview. To get out of asking too many questions a good rule of thumb is to ask a question then give a statement. For example if you ask "Where are you from?" She replies "Colorado." You could then say "Oh I love Colorado. My family and I always visit every year to go skiing." You could then take the conversation with another question such as. "Do you like the outdoors? Do you ski? Do you like cold weather?" The point is to ask a couple general questions and grab on to something from what she said to start the new conversational thread. Like I just did above with the outdoors, skiing, or weather.

Next demonstrate higher value through telling stories and using your own personal canned material. I find it best to practice my material hundreds of times before hand so when I am actually in the field I am very confident. The point of Day Game is to either get one of the three closes:

1. Instant Date
2. Phone Number
3. Kiss

Have a coffee shop or some location in mind for an instant date. Every time you move to a new location with a women it builds comfort and trust. The goal of Day Game is to go on an Instant Date. Have a near by location in mind.




Examples of what to say:

Direct Openers-
I was just on my way to get a coffee and I saw you walking and wanted to let you know that you are the cutest / most attractive / prettiest/ girl I have seen all day. My name is blank.
You are the cutest girl I have seen in the last five minutes. I'm blank.
You have a great energy.
I'm curious about you?

If you are going direct is it okay to comment on her physical beauty? Or is it better to say something like "You have a great energy." Or "You have a great look/style."

When you are going direct is it okay to add the following:
-I'm sorry for stopping you.
-Excuse me.
-Do you have a second?

Or is it better to avoid excusing your self to show that you are a high value guy and not a wast of your own space? I have heard that it is better to always go direct during day game is this true?


Indirect Opener -
Asking for directions
Asking for the time.
"Where is the nearest Starbucks?"


Situational Opener-
It's a beautiful day.
It is really hot/cold.
Comment on her clothing. (I feel like complements are always taken well.)
If she is walking her dog this can be a great opener.

After a situational opener is said can you stack it with a direct opener or is it better to just go direct?



Other Examples of conversation.

You: Hey I don't mean to bother you but I have to say you are the cutest girl I have seen all day. I'm blank. HB: Thank you. I'm blank.
You: I'm curious about you. What are you up to today?

Stack this with other routines and let the conversation flow naturally. Look for new conversational threads as you ask her questions about her day. The conversation can really go any where. If you feel a connection and the interaction is going well she will give you IOI's. At this point push for an instant date. Here are few things to say after a connection has been made and there is a social hook point:

-I can't even talk to you any more. We have to much in common.
-You just became important to me and you're cute too. This is not good.
-It's weird I don't really know you but I feel a real connection around you. [You may not have to say this next part if its going well but you could add. "To bad your not my type."]
(These things should be said 15-20 mins into the interaction.)


Things to say after the opener (Remember you can follow each question with a statement and DHV spikes.)
-What are you up to today?
-It's a beautiful day are you enjoying yourself?
-I'm curious about you.
-Where are you from?
-Are you a student?
-What do you study?
-What kind of music do you like?
-What makes you happy in life?
-What are some of your passions?

Create an emotional connection by asking questions about her life and show a genuine interest. Do not only focus on closing show a genuine interest. She is a beautiful girl show that you care. If she is not responding to any of your questions it could be because of a few reasons:

-She is really not interested. (Watch for IOI's or IOD's)
-She is in a hurry and can not talk.
-She is testing your frame.


If she is being rude here are a few things you can say:
-"Are you always this rude? Where is your off button?"
-"I'm really not that interested. I thought you looked friendly."
-"It was a pleasure meeting you."
-"Have a beautiful day."

I have heard that it is always best to leave a set on a positive note. Are there any other good negs if she is a HB10 and is being rude because she is use to being approached? Should the first thing you say be a neg depending on how hot she is during the day?



After the opener is said let the conversation flow naturally. You do not want to seem like you are reading your material like a script. It is all about the delivery. Only use your routines if you need too. If she is responsive to any questions you have asked this is an IOI. Listen to what she says and the conversation can be taken many ways (like the example with skiing.) Have memorized routines to redirect the interaction if the conversation dies. If she stars the conversation after a pause this is another IOI. I have found that even some of my Night Game routines can work during the day. As long as you understand the structure behind the routines you can reuse your material you just have to calibrate.