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Coming home for the summer can be a make or break event. All the girls back home may want your nuts for a 3 month fling, or your nuts go unwanted. Where do you draw the line between being proactive and letting the home town hotties come to you?
My Mindset: Do not call or contact any of them, perhaps the biggest indicator of low value. You were away for 8 months meeting all these cool people, so girls back home should be the last to get your attention. You have 2 options. Option 1: be incredibly social, go out all the time to the popular places around town. Bring close friends that you have maintained a line of contact with. Some of those friends may have stayed home as well, thus they have access to the social circle that has formed post high school. Eventually you will run into some home town hotties, and since not much goes on back home during the school year, they will want to hop onto your fun and dominant frame. Option 2: you cannot let any particular girl know she is special. Throw a massive party. Have all your friends invite everyone they chilled with in high school. You are throwing the party, and all the girls are there. You have options and status.
Post any other thoughts, or ideas below. This summer needs to be the best summer.
I like option 1 inexpensive and you'll get the same result as option 2. You got good plans though keep the confidence up don't put everything on one girl have many options and you'll be fine.