Hey guys, I've been suffering from one-itis, but I really like this girl.

Situation:
Been friend with her for a year. Just recently developed feelings for her. Asked her to hang out multiple times, she's nicely said "I can't sorry." I trust her since we are friends. But a few days ago I asked her if she wanted to hang out again, she said ask me again on friday( 2 days from then). But I didn't see her again; she could've been avoiding me. Now I debating whether I should send this text:

"Hey buddy I can't do anything today so I'll make you fall in love with me another day."

Edit as you wish. But basically I wanted to say buddy in front hencing that we are still friends, then the "Fall in love" part to let her know I want her.

What should I do now? And Is the text ok?

I don't like that text. Also, you are overanalyzing things. When she says she can't hang out with you, is she offering an excuse or is she literally saying "I can't, sorry"? If it's the latter, she has zero interest and you should just move on. I really don't understand the last part of your post. Did she agree to go out with you on Friday or not?

Thanks for replying.

But she isn't saying "I can't, sorry." And I couldn't ask her again on Friday, so I ended up just texting her that my meth lab blew up (4/20 joke) today saying I can't hang out with her. But I think I will just let things cool down, maybe give her some time to herself.

That text is terrible. It's seeking a response.

Just the other day I told a girl via text "You can back to me when you're free."

She NEVER texted me and next time I saw her she ignored me. And she was interested at first.

Btw--if you've asked her multiple times to hang out, she doesn't want to. I highly recommend to stop playing games. She is playing games with you. Men don't play games.

Call her out on her shit, don't cause shit yourself, which is what you're doing. You are just starting more shit. You know she's flaking on you.

Tell her straight up you want to hang out with her and ask her when she's free. Ask her what her schedule is. If she doesn't tell you, she doesn't wanna. Don't just say "wanna hang out" and then have her say no.

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