I am in College and currently in my class there is a girl with a couple of who friends.
I find this girl cute and fun =) She sits by me and we do some small talk before class.

Now, i have no trouble offering her to have lunch or whatever - but here is a question.

*She has 2 friends sitting by her in a class. Which like me or at least are positive to me. Cause i bantered first time i saw them.
*Semester just started, so i will be sitting by her for the rest of semester
*She is my major - so there is high possibility that we will have future classes together

She is a girl i am interested in, and i am wondering how could i make it so
that i do not do anything awkward =)

And she seems to like me or maybe see me as a fun guy. For example when today she was coughing in class during lecture. I said "Bless, Bless" and she laughed. Or when i was behind lecture i would lean over and she would let me see her notes and she smiled again.

I usually get super positive reactions from people - guys and girls.

Is it all right to ask her to lunch before class starts, get her number or facebook or whatever. And then just go and have lunch and see if there is anything else beyond her looks and keep in touch? Or should i wait and see in the future?

I am more worried about HER - because i do not want to make her feel uncomfortable, especially because she is a person i encounter regularly and will encounter regularly in the future.

So guys, any advice. Or any comments, inputs you can give me to become better - WILL BE GREATLY APPECIATED.

So far your IOI to this girl, go ahead and go out with her, so far she's digging into what ever your doing to make her feel this way, keep a great sence of humor with her and when you run out of jokes flirt with her a lot and also try to memorize some plam reading techniques. Chicks like it when you can tell them about themself, and before the day is done tell her that you like haging with her and whats the best way to reach her? and i think you will be able to get her #. Holla @ your bowy ant let me know how it worked out.

Hold on is semester aurterm?
No wait fall is aurterm?
(I think thats how you spell aurtum????)
So that must make spring semester?

This is all so confusing!

Anyway, the longer you leave things be, it will just put you in the friends zone. From what you wrote its hard to tell if they see you as a potential BF. Just run your magic on them and look out for IOI and SOI. If all does fail when you try to escalate, you could use mystery's kiss line 'i never said you can kiss me' or something similar to that.

Keep in mind these girls could come in as useful pivots or pawns. To open doors to new targets and social circles. How long have you known her for?

And remember you got to sit next to this girl for next (thingy bobby), things could turn uncomfortable.

This a Ross Jeffries line:

'i dont promise any such thing. Friends dont put each other in boxes like that. The only thing i promise is never to do anything unless you and i both feel totally comfortable, willing and ready.

(is this not abit AFC?)

This is only a second week of a semester in college.

I will run my magic on her =)

Thanks for reply btw.
I will do it tomorrow. Will keep you updated guys.

Update.
Today, i said to the girl that she is unbelievably cute. SHe had 2 of her friends around.
I said "You have to forgive me, for not saying how unbelievably cute you are. - I mean all of you girls are cute, but she is unbelievably cute to me"
So i did not deliver it with 100% smoothness, but they seemed to dig me.
I was like"Hey, can you take a compliment like that?" after this.
So she asked what i am doing for a weekend - i told her what plans i got. Talked to her friends a little bit.

This was like 2 minutes before class started.THen she sits by me in class. But i virtually do not do any game during class - cause i am a good student =)
But she definitely was peeking a little at me during class.

BTW i am writing out all the details so you can get a better picture

So after class her friends leave, and she is leaving a little bit later. I say bye etc. And she goes off etc.

So - i did not ask her out. I will later.
She seems like a great girl with a great character and great personality. I will find out more of her personality as time goes on.


So this is just my update.
If you have any advices on what to do next or any comments - please do so.

PUA is a nation and i am ready to help you all, but i sometimes need help too.

Main man you have the fumble ball and you need to gain back control of the play. What I mean is that your moving slow in the process and she may loose interest in you. What you need to do now is the cat n string move on her. Tell her that you need a hug (I bet she will be willing to give you one), and grade her hug from the lowest to highest.

Example:
Hug 1: I got to give that a 5 (as the low grade) I was not feeling you on that how bout another one?

Hug 2: mmmmm I will grade this one a 3.5 (as an okay hug) how bout one more?

Hug 3: This one is much better than the last 2. then hit her a joke line. Your total is $40 dollars and you only take cash.

By doing this you gain much more interest and you'll be close or in the comfort zone. And tell look how bout we exchange #'s, and we could talk some more.

In my opinion you must take action before its late. Everyday that passes you are getting closer to losing your target. She could even get a boyfriend the next day !
So dont waste time. You should do sth directly and with confidence.Ask her out and get her number. Or you can sit here for like a year debating whats the magic line that will impress her . Either way you are risking loosing her. Also dont invest too much thought and energy on her. It makes things harder.

Cheers,
Gun

Cool guys, got it.
Thanks for replys =)

I will keep it in mind. And even if she will lose interest, so what? - it is good practice.

But yeah, i will definitely use that hug thang.

"So after class her friends leave, and she is leaving a little bit later. I say bye etc. And she goes off etc."


It sounds to me that she wanted you to walk with her after class and you missed your chance. From the way you say she has been flirting though, hope is probably not lost. I agree with these other guys that you have to act soon before you really miss your chance.

A'ight cool..
Forgive me for being such an AFC )))
I am trying to improve.

Anyway, next time i am gonna hug and kino before class. And get her digits. During class there is really no opportunity.

I got one logistical problem: I am in oklahoma i do not drive. So i guess i should just invite her over to somewhere on campus. ???
Asking her to pick me up will look bad probably. ???

Yeah i completely agree with you, it seems like she was stalling so that you had a chance with her alone. Also like everyone is telling you - make a move before its too late - I am almost in the same situation right now so i need to figure it out also!

Being a college student myself, it seems to me that this situation is much simpler than you're making it out to be. All you have to do is talk to her and her friends while you're leaving class, pointing out the boredom/drudgery of school. Then, just say something to her like "Hey, we should hang out sometime when we're not in that boring class... I know a bunch of parties this weekend/ I am throwing a party this weekend." This displays a) that you are a person who likes to have fun, b) that you have some interest in her besides the fact that she sits next to you in class, and c) that you have a social life that is superior to hers. Then, you shouldn't even have to ask for her number. Just make sure you follow through once friday night comes along.

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